Officiant feels demoted from being a groomsman

Dear Amy: My husband and I were just involved in the wedding of our two dear friends, I as a bridesmaid and my husband as the officiant.

Amy Dickinson

Originally, they’d asked my husband to be a groomsman. They later asked if he’d be willing to officate instead. Although this is not his profession, he happily put his heart into preparing for their day.

At the wedding rehearsal, we learned that he’d been left out of the bachelor party, held the previous night.

He didn’t receive any gift (each bridesmaid and groomsman received a small gift) and was left out of groomsmen photos until he specifically asked for at least one photo with the couple.

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