Nobody’s backing my idea to have a baby now

DEAR HARRIETTE: I am strongly considering having a baby without a partner. I don’t want to wait for anybody to give me what I want in this life.

Harriette Cole

My family is constantly expressing the challenges that can arise when someone is raising a child as a single parent, but nobody is telling me about how rewarding it can be.

I am not rich, but my biological clock is ticking, and I do not want to risk being unable to have a child in the future. I want to have one now.

Is it a bad idea to have a child without a partner?

Single Parent

DEAR SINGLE PARENT: You will not be the first or the last person to be a single parent. Is it hard? Sure. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it.

What you need is a plan. Do not think of yourself as an island. You need to assemble your community — your village — of people who agree to have your back as you bring a child into this world. These can be parents, siblings, cousins, friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc. Identify the people you trust who can and want to be there for your child.

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