DEAR MISS MANNERS: Last year, I planned a dinner with seven friends from junior and senior high school (we are all in our 50s now).
At the dinner, we decided to make it a monthly thing, with me in charge of planning everything.
Most members of the group have attended at least three of the seven get-togethers; however, there are two who only came to the first one. Last month at dinner, we decided to stop inviting those two, so I removed them from our social media group.
Well, needless to say, they are not happy. I know I probably should have let them know that they were being removed before I actually did it, but it’s too late for that now. Our first dinner without those two is coming up soon, and I know I will catch some grief once they see the pictures online.